What Others Don’t Tell You About Threesomes

There are things in life that are better prepared, like a threesome because it does not always happen as we had imagined. For my part this experience is to be classified in memories to forget. So, before literally erasing this anecdote from my memory, I decided to share with you this embarrassing moment of my life and give you some tips for those who will want to try the experiment.

9 tips for a successful threesome

You are not in a porn. It takes trust and delicacy for a threesome to succeed.

  1. It can be a bit confusing: what to do with one’s body, which position should one focus on so that nobody feels cheated? Rather doggie or missionary? Above or below? You have to make clear what you are ready to do, but also to see. Some couples do not live well because their partners are having fun with each other, others enjoy it.
  2. Find the right partner for a threesome, you can go online on dating site of the newly available apps to find threesomes. But choose your partners wisely.
  3. So what type of couple are you? These kinds of questions, it will be necessary to ask them before having a threesome, and abundance, and to say clearly what one can do or not. No need to say so much if you are three sexfriends without more connections …
  4. Do not be afraid to laugh. Laughter can loosen the mood. Be light if things do not go as planned.
  5. A small glass of wine or any other alcohol will do the trick. In case of jitters, it can help to start the festivities. We do not tell you to abuse the drink …
  6. The key word of this part of legs out of the ordinary: the attraction and excitement. In a trio, there is the risk that two people are not attracted to each other. They then focus all their attention on the third person, clearly under pressure.
  7. Stay open-minded. Have you ever kissed a girl before? Is it time to try? If you steer and you do not want to try new things, your threesome will be an absolute flop.
  8. Do not leave anyone behind. Even if you are in action with one of the two people, be sure to stay in physical contact with the third person. She did not come just to applaud the show.
  9. The condom is obligatory. Even if you know everyone.

If you do not want your threesome to be a disaster …

  1. Forget the threesome: you-your darling-your best friend. You will never look at it the same way again and you may imagine that your man is constantly dragging it. To avoid jealousy on a daily basis once your little business has been settled, go for an unknown person.
  2. Do not do a threesome to please your guy, a friend, … it will be more difficult if you do not want to.
  3. Do not go headlong without first discussing with the people involved. It is not in full action that we begin to ask ten thousand questions.
  4. Does this position displease you? Does it hurt you? You are uncomfortable and want to stop? Say it! Play the card of the honest, it is useless to say to you “I will look nunuche / trouillarde if I stop everything now”.